We teach our daughters a lot of things: how to be strong, how to be smart, how to be independent, how to succeed.
But we rarely teach them what healthy love looks like. And what unhealthy love looks like before it's too late.
Most young women are taught: "If a man ever hits you, you leave."
But they're not taught:
The result: Many women don't recognize unhealthy patterns until they're already entangled—emotionally, practically, financially.
Our mission: Teach girls what to look for early, so they can recognize patterns before they become traps.
The Warning Signs is a free, online course that teaches young women about abuse warning signs. Not just physical abuse—emotional, verbal, psychological, and financial abuse too.
"My daughter completed the course and it opened up a conversation we'd been avoiding. She felt like someone finally explained what she was experiencing. Not as a victim, but as someone who could recognize patterns. It was powerful."
"I wish I'd had this education when I was young. I see my daughter being more aware, more questioning, more willing to trust her gut. That's what I want for her."
"The course helped my daughter understand what her friend was going through. Instead of just saying 'leave him,' she actually understood why her friend was staying. It made her a better friend and a more compassionate person."
There's no "right" way. Do what works for your family.
No. It teaches recognition, not fear. The goal is awareness, not anxiety. Most students feel more confident after taking the course because they have language for what they're experiencing.
That's actually when this is most valuable. She can reflect on her own relationship and decide if there are patterns worth paying attention to. This isn't about telling her what to do—it's about giving her information.
Relationships matter to teenagers. They're beginning to form patterns that can last into adulthood. Teaching them early, in a non-judgmental way, is powerful. And it's age-appropriate—we don't use graphic content.
If your daughter shares something concerning, listen without judgment. Believe her. Ask what she needs. Consider professional support (therapist, counselor) if she's experiencing harm.
No. This course is for all young women. Understanding these patterns helps in your own relationships, in supporting friends, and in building healthy connections.
Keep it light:
"I found a free course about relationships. It seems really good—not preachy, just educational. I thought you might find it interesting."
Focus on empowerment:
"I wish I'd known this stuff when I was your age. It's about recognizing patterns early so you know what you deserve."
Give her autonomy:
"You don't have to do it. But if you want to, I think you'll get something out of it."
Offer to do it with her:
"I'm actually going to do it too. Want to talk about it afterward?"
Or just send the link:
"Found this. Thought you might like it."
Not every conversation needs to be a big conversation.
A healthy relationship includes:
Primary course is 14+. We have versions for different ages. Younger teens can do it with parental guidance.
Completely free. No fees, no premium content, no ads. We believe this education should be accessible.
Modules take 20–30 minutes each. 10 modules total. Can be done over a week or spread over a semester.
Some kids will, some won't. That's okay. You can ask questions gently. You can share your own reactions. But give her space.
Absolutely. Understanding these patterns helps everyone—understanding your partners, understanding friends, understanding dynamics in general.